Great response Dan. To your LW as well as others: the only path to pleasure in a relationship is through your own personal pleasure with your self. Changing the habits and ideas that produce you unhappy will basically improve your character as well as your life, and therefore would probably make you being into the right spot in the right time (online or elsewhere) for which you meet someone if you hadn’t started by working on your own happiness that it makes sense to be in a serious relationship with – someplace you never, ever would have been.
She has to browse the book connected about attachment concept. It assisted me personally tremendously in a predicament that is similar.
Dan’s right–I lost my better half a few months ago. Being with somebody just isn’t a replacement for building a full life for yourself–you never know how a relationship will play out.
Forget this crap and work out a delighted life that is single your self.
Oh, JunieGirl — we’m therefore sorry for the loss. My heart fades for you.